Bill Gates Rules for Students. 

Rule No. 1:

Life is not fair. Get used to it. The average teen-ager uses the phrase "It’s not fair" 8.6 times a day. You got it from your parents, who said it so often you decided they must be the most idealistic generation ever. When they started hearing it from their own kids, they realized Rule No. 1.

Rule No. 2:

The real world won’t care as much about your self-esteem as much as your school does. It’ll expect you to accomplish something before you feel good about yourself. This may come as a shock. Usually, when inflated self-esteem meets reality, kids complain that it’s not fair. (See Rule No. 1)

Rule No. 3:

Sorry, you won’t make $40,000 a year right out of high school. And you won’t be a vice president or have a car phone either. You may even have to wear a uniform that doesn’t have a Gap label.

Rule No. 4:

If you think your teacher is tough, wait ’til you get a boss. He doesn’t have tenure, so he tends to be a bit edgier. When you screw up, he’s not going to ask you how you feel about it.

Rule No. 5:

Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your grandparents had a different word for burger flipping. They called it opportunity. They weren’t embarrassed making minimum wage either. They would have been embarrassed to sit around talking about Kurt Cobain all weekend.

Rule No. 6:

It’s not your parents’ fault. If you screw up, you are responsible. This is the flip side of "It’s my life," and "You’re not the boss of me," and other eloquent proclamations of your generation. When you turn 18, it’s on your dime. Don’t whine about it, or you’ll sound like a baby boomer.

Rule No. 7:

Before you were born your parents weren’t as boring as they are now. They got that way paying your bills, cleaning up your room and listening to you tell them how idealistic you are. And by the way, before you save the rain forest from the blood-sucking parasites of your parents’ generation, try delousing the closet in your bedroom.

Rule No. 8:

Your school may have done away with winners and losers. Life hasn’t. In some schools, they’ll give you as many times as you want to get the right answer. Failing grades have been abolished and class valedictorians scrapped, lest anyone’s feelings be hurt. Effort is as important as results. This, of course, bears not the slightest resemblance to anything in real life. (See Rule No. 1, Rule No. 2 and Rule No. 4.)

Rule No. 9:

Life is not divided into semesters, and you don’t get summers off. Not even Easter break. They expect you to show up every day. For eight hours. And you don’t get a new life every 10 weeks. It just goes on and on. While we’re at it, very few jobs are interested in fostering your self-expression or helping you find yourself. Fewer still lead to self-realization. (See Rule No. 1 and Rule No. 2.)

Rule No. 10:

Television is not real life. Your life is not a sitcom. Your problems will not all be solved in 30 minutes, minus time for commercials. In real life, people actually have to leave the coffee shop to go to jobs. Your friends will not be as perky or pliable as Jennifer Aniston.

Rule No. 11:

Be nice to nerds. You may end up working for them. We all could.

Rule No. 12:

Smoking does not make you look cool. It makes you look moronic. Next time you’re out cruising, watch an 11-year-old with a butt in his mouth. That’s what you look like to anyone over 20. Ditto for "expressing yourself" with purple hair and/or pierced body parts.

Rule No. 13:

You are not immortal. (See Rule No. 12.) If you are under the impression that living fast, dying young and leaving a beautiful corpse is romantic, you obviously haven’t seen one of your peers at room temperature lately.

Rule No. 14:

Enjoy this while you can. Sure parents are a pain, school’s a bother, and life is depressing. But someday you’ll realize how wonderful it was to be a kid. Maybe you should start now. You’re welcome.

该怎么开口？

一个曾经被伤得奄奄一息的人，

要怎么开口去伤另一个人？

只能把这一切看在眼里。。。。

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该怎么让你明白？

留恋一个失心的人是不会让你更好过的，

你的痛都看在眼里，

可却没有给你承诺的能力。。。。

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未来还遥远。。。。

前方的路走得有点吃力，

何能把另一个人带上。。。

被绑着的翅膀飞不远。。。

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刺痛的伤口还没复原，

旧疤还在隐隐作痛，

怎么可能让自己在继续沉沦？

此刻只想静静的随风而息。。。。

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所以，

希望你能看见前方，

飞向彩虹。。。走向自由。。。

她以自己潇洒的人生原则活着，一个比谁还了解自己的女子，

知道自己的方向，一个为自己活得精彩的女子。

每一天她都在创造着自己的故事。。。

可惜的是从没想过要让另一个个体闯入她的生命里。

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他每天为自己的目标在奋战创造着自己未来，

谦卑的与他人相处，从不把架子摆在脸上，

一个有远见上进、不为他人改变目标的人。

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他与她的相遇，却是一个无奈的邂逅。

她从他的眼中看到光芒，

每一个他带给她的光芒，似乎成了她的生命的能源，

他的眼神成为她每一天渴望寻找的，

而她也成为他每天期望的“刚好巧遇”。

无奈的，

时间如风般吹过。。。

也没让他们留下什么痕迹就结束了这短暂的邂逅，

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他与她有的没的联络，似乎成了他们互相关心的方式。

她担心着他为了工作忘了自己，

他害怕她误交损友忘了自己，

可是谁也不愿意承认彼此的存在，

复杂的内心让他们不肯放下眼前的执著。

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一首送给他与她的歌：

温柔五月天

走在风中今天阳光突然好温柔
天的温柔地的温柔像你抱著我
然后发现你的改变孤单的今后
如果冷该怎么渡过
天边风光身边的我都不在你眼中
你的眼中藏著什么我从来都不懂
没有关系你的世界就让你拥有
不打扰是我的温柔
不知道不明了不想要为什么我的心
明明是想靠近却孤单到黎明
不知道不明了不想要为什么我的心
那爱情的绮丽总是在孤单里
再把我的最好的爱给你
不知不觉不情不愿又到巷子口
我没有哭也没有笑因为这是梦
没有预兆没有理由你真的有说过
如果有就让你自由

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故事总要一个结局，

那一天，他告诉她：“我要走了”。

他问她：“我们见个面好吗？”。

没有预兆的，在约定前出现了。

她心疼眼前疲倦的他，

内心万般的不舍，却说不出半句留他的话。

结果他主动要求留在她家一回。。

时间一分一秒的过，仿佛走得比平时还要快。

说好了留一小时，却多了好多个一小时。

可是，时间不留人。。

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在约定那天，他缺席了。

她也从那天起，身不由己的忙起来了。。

眼见离他离开的日子越来越近。。

也不再得到他的消息，她放弃了等待。。

或许，

诺无其事的让他走是她能给的最后温柔 。。

是夜了。。。不想睡，

打开书。。。不想理，

只想听我的音乐。。。

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想想近年来的过去。。。。

就像走马灯的转过去，

好的、坏的、爱的、恨的、哭的、笑的。。。。

二十多岁的身体，三十多岁的内心，

[30+20/2] = 经验。

不认识我的人， 送我：“你想太多了！”

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人生笔记簿：

幸福的人，对不起我不会羡慕、自怜，

    因为我很爱我自己。。。。

恋爱的人，不好意思爱情不是 No. 1，

    因为我走的世界比绑在一起还要大。。。。

榜上的人，对不起我不爱与您并排，

    因为不知盲目追随原因爱行动证明。。。。。

爱我的人，谢谢你们，

    因为你们看见真正的我。。。。

1.孙燕姿 –天黑黑

Is time to announce to world…..

day by day….

Hope I was not too late to find out the world…is so beauty…

Yet…that’s a lot of negative thing in our life,

Can we forget bout that from this moments?

Take the time to be hard times….phew~ is stupid!

Agree or not we can make the thing change which depend on us ….

Huh~I pray to the god please don’t let me put the sadness in front of happiness again…..

Well start from today…

Here I am my lovely beautiful life….. I will make you more and more colorful and interesting…

Life is short, make it interesting as you want it.

Oop….else will regret when you become Ah Gong and Ah Mah…(n_n)

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29 June:

Having lunch with…

Mr.Tony, Mr.Lai, Matthew, Yazzmin, Fadzilah..

Jonny’s Restaurant ??? forgot the restaurant name….kekeke….in 3rd floor,BTS

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Dinner with Annie,

Japanise food restaurant…also forget the restaurant name!

*Thank you for celebrating my birthday (n_n)

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2 July:

having farewell lunch with my dearest…big boss

Mr.Tony, Chee Meng, Matthew…..in BTS Sushi King!

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3 July:

huh~ dangerous lunch time (*_*)" …haha…

lunch with my best friend : LHJ ~

Fun Hei Dei (hong kong food reataurant)

*Thanks’ for still remember my B’day (n_n)

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4 July:

TNO-ESN family day + farewell ….+ EJ + Sit Nee

hehehe….organize by our big big boss (senior manager) Mr.Aziz

In the Chicken Rice Shop…

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5 July:

Oh….lovely cute cute friends

Mui mui, yen ling, chiun er…i’m gonna miss u all…

(~_~)" thank you ….

very appreciate every moments u all be with me !!!

dear….Thank you for the support u give to me when i was loss..

Belated birthday celebration and farewell in …

Rock shop….nice restaurant with classic deisgn

emm really love u all…muak muak :-X

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6 July:

My last day….

nothing much to say…..because can’t spoke it out using any word or sentence…. loving u all….u all are too good for me…huh…huh ;-(

very very very appreciate the time u all be with me….

My training would not have any meaning without u all…..

You all are super VVVVIP in my life……

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The meaning of white roses is perceived as pure and bright, and by giving away a white rose a suitor says “You are heavenly” and “I respect and look up to you” to the object of his affection.

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白玫瑰 。。。让我疯狂的爱上，

她。。。。。象征着纯白的爱情，

白里透黄的玫瑰。。。

更是带着让人痴醉魅力。。。。

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无奈的，

她。。。是两面的，

是纯洁的。。。。。

也是伤感的来源。。。。

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女人的心就像水晶一样。。。

那么的纯洁。。。

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晶透的水晶。。。女人从没能好好的去疼惜过，

一次又一次的将它狠狠地抛向无底洞，

一直到它跌底。。。。一直到它碎落片地，

只有那一刻才会清醒。。。

留着泪的把零零碎碎的碎片一一拣回。。。

重组着不成形的心型水晶。。。

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女人。。。。

当把那破碎的心重组后就会忘了流泪的那刻

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如果说，

过多次的粉碎。。。

那。。。最终是不是只剩下粉末？

在那刻女人再也捡不起了，

因为她选择放弃那破碎的心。。。

人们，

在朋友遇难时总会努力去给于帮助与劝告，

虽懂所给于的是出自一片真心，

可是，

却往往忽略了当事人的内心。。。

时下的执著。。。谁又会如此轻易放得下？

然而，

需要的并不是一时一刻的改变、放下执著。。。

或许是一点点的温暖吧。。。

所以，

不爱随口给下结论或劝告。。。

留下真心的微笑、陪伴、时间。。。

＊谢谢曾在我需要的时候给我温暖的朋友